HOW TO WIN IN RELATIONSHIPS!! #relationship - Video

Try these things...

Always take control of your relationships and never let anyone steer them off course. Many changes will have to be made to achieve this.

— Shift from Complaint to Request

– Move from a negative/past to a positive/future focus. Don’t criticize—ask!

– Contract with your partner to engage in the repair process.

– Stay moderate, sane, and on course.

things to avoid....

1. Withdrawal Stonewalling, ignoring, avoiding, refusing to engage.

2. Retaliation Getting even, revenge, hurting your partner because you’re hurting.

3. Unbridled Self Expression Excessive sharing of thoughts and feelings, no matter the person, time, or place.

4. Controlling Your Partner Can be direct (bullying, or indirect (manipulation, managing someone).

5. Being Right Finding out whose view is more valid or accurate. Needing your partner to agree with your perspective. Arguing your case.

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